chore: full SSDLC compliance workflow

[baileympearson]

Description

What is changing?

Adds the full SSDLC release workflow for kerberos and builds our bindings in Github Actions. Note that this also removes a portion of our evergreen CI matrix - as follow up work, we'll want to adjust the tests to run in Github actions as well.

Example successful run: https://github.com/mongodb-js/kerberos/actions/runs/9702370097

Is there new documentation needed for these changes?

What is the motivation for this change?

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