fix: rocksmq consumer register not concurrent safe

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relate: #39336

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 69.47%. Comparing base (bca2a62) to head (1ff83c9).
Report is 14 commits behind head on master.

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- Misses       8139     8211      +72     

Components	Coverage Δ
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Core	69.47% <ø> (-0.16%)	⬇️
Go	∅ <ø> (∅)

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