fix: [10kcp] Fix slow dist handle and slow observe

[bigsheeper]

1. Provide partition-level indexing in the collection target.
2. Make SegmentAction not wait for distribution.
3. Optimize logging to reduce CPU overhead.

issue: #37630

pr: #38566

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