enhance: can't resumable error occurs, return instead of swap

[fengjun2016]

#35913

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[chyezh]

/hold

producerWithResumingError type is a utility type to handle the Condvar logic for ResumableProducer.
So after creating the producer, we must record the error and producer in producerWithResumingError to notify the method Produce.

So we cannot move the SwapProducer to the position after error handling.

[chyezh]

closed, as the previous commented.