Update api_key_last_used for one-off API sends

[andrewleith]

Summary | Résumé

This PR updates the api_key_last_used field when a single notification is sent via the API

Test instructions | Instructions pour tester la modification

TODO: Fill in test instructions for the reviewer.

Release Instructions | Instructions pour le déploiement

None.

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