[fix](exchange)fix exchange sink buffer does not update total_queue_size when EOF.

[Mryange]

What problem does this PR solve?

pick part from #47312

#41602
EOF clears _instance_to_package_queue but does not update total_queue_size, causing incorrect judgments that rely on total_queue_size.

UT

mock transmit_blockv2 dest ins id :1
mock transmit_blockv2 dest ins id :2
mock transmit_blockv2 dest ins id :3
queue size : 6
each queue size : 
Instance: 2, queue size: 2
Instance: 1, queue size: 2
Instance: 3, queue size: 2

queue size : 6 // error size 
each queue size :
Instance: 2, queue size: 0
Instance: 1, queue size: 2
Instance: 3, queue size: 2

mock transmit_blockv2 dest ins id :1
mock transmit_blockv2 dest ins id :1
mock transmit_blockv2 dest ins id :3
mock transmit_blockv2 dest ins id :3

Release note

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• Behavior changed:

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• Does this need documentation?

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[Mryange]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 40814 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit 0307872937acdb3ee21d61622381f7175706dba6, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17591	7354	7312	7312
q2	2063	170	160	160
q3	10554	1157	1161	1157
q4	10232	714	753	714
q5	7744	2812	2827	2812
q6	232	152	147	147
q7	963	618	615	615
q8	9392	1964	1974	1964
q9	6677	6402	6480	6402
q10	7866	2286	2324	2286
q11	458	263	259	259
q12	402	210	219	210
q13	17777	2997	2972	2972
q14	255	213	206	206
q15	562	531	547	531
q16	671	615	613	613
q17	971	586	519	519
q18	7356	6659	6696	6659
q19	1398	1143	1008	1008
q20	474	199	205	199
q21	3998	3302	3084	3084
q22	1081	995	985	985
Total cold run time: 108717 ms
Total hot run time: 40814 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	7218	7243	7231	7231
q2	324	237	229	229
q3	2905	3041	2995	2995
q4	2071	1842	1845	1842
q5	5713	5769	5736	5736
q6	220	136	136	136
q7	2210	1816	1805	1805
q8	3351	3505	3499	3499
q9	8870	8889	8884	8884
q10	3583	3571	3564	3564
q11	586	501	497	497
q12	828	583	654	583
q13	4625	3186	3129	3129
q14	296	274	271	271
q15	563	523	522	522
q16	717	672	682	672
q17	1864	1602	1584	1584
q18	8196	7694	7610	7610
q19	2093	1588	1641	1588
q20	2039	1801	1812	1801
q21	5135	5158	5207	5158
q22	1083	999	1022	999
Total cold run time: 64490 ms
Total hot run time: 60335 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 191245 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit 0307872937acdb3ee21d61622381f7175706dba6, data reload: false

query1	998	367	360	360
query2	6509	2086	2012	2012
query3	6702	215	227	215
query4	34126	23494	23399	23399
query5	4421	456	436	436
query6	266	173	184	173
query7	4616	308	312	308
query8	283	215	215	215
query9	9679	2687	2674	2674
query10	490	262	272	262
query11	18196	15328	15199	15199
query12	153	104	106	104
query13	1648	433	410	410
query14	9992	7158	7755	7158
query15	260	183	183	183
query16	8052	445	434	434
query17	1694	569	563	563
query18	2019	334	317	317
query19	371	162	160	160
query20	119	110	110	110
query21	208	104	106	104
query22	4536	4199	4337	4199
query23	34881	33727	34025	33727
query24	11593	2866	2907	2866
query25	684	402	388	388
query26	1598	167	169	167
query27	2769	341	348	341
query28	7890	2456	2425	2425
query29	979	423	416	416
query30	328	161	163	161
query31	1037	819	823	819
query32	96	60	61	60
query33	776	292	306	292
query34	934	495	521	495
query35	892	717	700	700
query36	1097	953	918	918
query37	133	68	71	68
query38	4142	3951	3869	3869
query39	1477	1414	1445	1414
query40	287	100	99	99
query41	52	49	50	49
query42	114	102	104	102
query43	549	486	492	486
query44	1327	803	804	803
query45	186	166	169	166
query46	1140	711	707	707
query47	1948	1777	1828	1777
query48	463	378	368	368
query49	1239	386	379	379
query50	816	411	411	411
query51	7144	7293	6980	6980
query52	102	93	91	91
query53	261	183	186	183
query54	1205	459	449	449
query55	77	79	79	79
query56	272	239	245	239
query57	1335	1117	1084	1084
query58	243	210	229	210
query59	3256	2918	2875	2875
query60	282	260	290	260
query61	112	108	108	108
query62	896	675	674	674
query63	215	197	191	191
query64	5219	670	639	639
query65	3295	3179	3236	3179
query66	1428	316	331	316
query67	15834	15578	15536	15536
query68	3561	603	590	590
query69	419	269	275	269
query70	1195	1071	1029	1029
query71	335	263	267	263
query72	6251	4027	4085	4027
query73	742	346	349	346
query74	9990	9041	9213	9041
query75	3336	2650	2639	2639
query76	2504	1113	1003	1003
query77	401	279	283	279
query78	10398	9598	9642	9598
query79	1094	587	592	587
query80	782	434	427	427
query81	507	241	238	238
query82	1151	132	121	121
query83	245	145	152	145
query84	232	81	76	76
query85	1095	295	279	279
query86	321	302	291	291
query87	4438	4502	4345	4345
query88	3374	2402	2364	2364
query89	397	298	298	298
query90	2079	196	193	193
query91	187	148	147	147
query92	64	52	53	52
query93	1090	539	527	527
query94	796	285	295	285
query95	361	257	259	257
query96	608	281	284	281
query97	3292	3171	3185	3171
query98	217	201	197	197
query99	1522	1319	1441	1319
Total cold run time: 298925 ms
Total hot run time: 191245 ms

[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 33.38 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit 0307872937acdb3ee21d61622381f7175706dba6, data reload: false

query1	0.03	0.03	0.03
query2	0.08	0.04	0.03
query3	0.24	0.07	0.06
query4	1.62	0.10	0.10
query5	0.54	0.50	0.51
query6	1.13	0.73	0.72
query7	0.02	0.01	0.01
query8	0.04	0.04	0.03
query9	0.56	0.51	0.51
query10	0.56	0.56	0.56
query11	0.15	0.10	0.11
query12	0.15	0.12	0.14
query13	0.61	0.60	0.59
query14	2.95	2.95	2.96
query15	0.90	0.83	0.82
query16	0.38	0.37	0.37
query17	1.02	1.00	0.99
query18	0.23	0.23	0.22
query19	1.83	1.78	2.03
query20	0.02	0.01	0.01
query21	15.35	0.61	0.58
query22	2.52	2.82	1.99
query23	17.04	0.96	0.77
query24	3.00	1.17	1.49
query25	0.11	0.13	0.20
query26	0.60	0.14	0.14
query27	0.04	0.04	0.04
query28	9.95	1.10	1.06
query29	12.56	3.32	3.36
query30	0.25	0.06	0.06
query31	2.87	0.39	0.37
query32	3.24	0.46	0.46
query33	2.99	3.01	3.04
query34	16.79	4.47	4.54
query35	4.48	4.56	4.52
query36	0.66	0.49	0.49
query37	0.09	0.06	0.06
query38	0.05	0.03	0.03
query39	0.04	0.02	0.03
query40	0.17	0.13	0.12
query41	0.08	0.02	0.02
query42	0.04	0.02	0.02
query43	0.03	0.03	0.03
Total cold run time: 106.01 s
Total hot run time: 33.38 s

[Mryange]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 40680 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit aabda9f6dccbb10f99ffe1dadca011b1e728879b, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17579	7378	7199	7199
q2	2070	194	186	186
q3	10555	1101	1184	1101
q4	10569	771	680	680
q5	7742	2831	2775	2775
q6	234	148	148	148
q7	979	607	603	603
q8	9378	1947	1996	1947
q9	6651	6416	6400	6400
q10	7100	2348	2335	2335
q11	473	265	268	265
q12	428	227	215	215
q13	18743	3014	2997	2997
q14	240	207	212	207
q15	572	522	512	512
q16	677	629	614	614
q17	970	573	606	573
q18	7259	6654	6675	6654
q19	1392	1018	1021	1018
q20	478	226	208	208
q21	4015	3059	3270	3059
q22	1098	984	1006	984
Total cold run time: 109202 ms
Total hot run time: 40680 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	7264	7160	7226	7160
q2	322	245	236	236
q3	2926	2930	2959	2930
q4	2078	1819	1792	1792
q5	5706	5769	5742	5742
q6	230	140	145	140
q7	2192	1859	1839	1839
q8	3345	3566	3465	3465
q9	8846	8894	8778	8778
q10	3575	3526	3546	3526
q11	600	490	498	490
q12	801	609	602	602
q13	8240	3210	3157	3157
q14	314	272	272	272
q15	564	518	543	518
q16	725	674	685	674
q17	1840	1644	1633	1633
q18	8215	7645	7746	7645
q19	1676	1528	1384	1384
q20	2107	1850	1869	1850
q21	5618	5203	5457	5203
q22	1190	1060	994	994
Total cold run time: 68374 ms
Total hot run time: 60030 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 197899 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit aabda9f6dccbb10f99ffe1dadca011b1e728879b, data reload: false

query1	1292	922	955	922
query2	6248	2053	2008	2008
query3	10835	4299	4266	4266
query4	66189	28757	23480	23480
query5	4996	458	449	449
query6	403	172	166	166
query7	5485	315	311	311
query8	305	207	207	207
query9	8547	2697	2681	2681
query10	454	287	287	287
query11	17239	15291	15854	15291
query12	164	107	103	103
query13	1464	448	432	432
query14	10409	6826	7098	6826
query15	204	180	180	180
query16	7292	451	507	451
query17	1098	607	599	599
query18	1980	322	341	322
query19	213	163	166	163
query20	126	114	112	112
query21	205	104	105	104
query22	4885	4519	4573	4519
query23	34845	34271	34429	34271
query24	6211	2937	2884	2884
query25	502	400	416	400
query26	688	167	166	166
query27	1925	341	357	341
query28	4054	2482	2490	2482
query29	689	462	436	436
query30	239	166	161	161
query31	979	810	838	810
query32	63	55	59	55
query33	469	290	277	277
query34	902	495	525	495
query35	868	732	734	732
query36	1081	978	976	976
query37	124	73	82	73
query38	4099	4099	4106	4099
query39	1558	1503	1451	1451
query40	205	101	98	98
query41	48	46	48	46
query42	116	99	101	99
query43	519	507	476	476
query44	1192	822	823	822
query45	187	175	178	175
query46	1198	752	735	735
query47	2044	1922	1933	1922
query48	478	380	378	378
query49	739	386	398	386
query50	842	443	437	437
query51	7354	7181	7310	7181
query52	100	88	94	88
query53	252	182	182	182
query54	558	460	473	460
query55	79	75	74	74
query56	261	237	264	237
query57	1207	1084	1087	1084
query58	207	212	213	212
query59	3089	3015	2946	2946
query60	300	258	260	258
query61	110	105	106	105
query62	765	647	671	647
query63	224	200	193	193
query64	1385	677	736	677
query65	3247	3176	3213	3176
query66	719	321	319	319
query67	16072	15910	15741	15741
query68	3584	598	596	596
query69	434	290	286	286
query70	1165	1137	1139	1137
query71	359	260	261	260
query72	6397	4225	4143	4143
query73	777	359	346	346
query74	9953	8924	8961	8924
query75	3317	2665	2674	2665
query76	1967	1071	1118	1071
query77	484	278	282	278
query78	10538	9562	9610	9562
query79	2272	602	618	602
query80	1406	456	429	429
query81	533	248	240	240
query82	1163	122	117	117
query83	222	150	149	149
query84	286	89	78	78
query85	1004	303	284	284
query86	414	271	304	271
query87	4383	4248	4213	4213
query88	4242	2417	2376	2376
query89	423	293	291	291
query90	2003	185	183	183
query91	182	148	148	148
query92	70	51	50	50
query93	2888	562	567	562
query94	922	307	292	292
query95	369	261	262	261
query96	634	283	279	279
query97	3304	3173	3185	3173
query98	219	205	206	205
query99	1611	1286	1290	1286
Total cold run time: 320351 ms
Total hot run time: 197899 ms

[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 32.37 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit aabda9f6dccbb10f99ffe1dadca011b1e728879b, data reload: false

query1	0.03	0.03	0.04
query2	0.07	0.03	0.03
query3	0.23	0.06	0.06
query4	1.63	0.10	0.10
query5	0.51	0.51	0.50
query6	1.14	0.72	0.72
query7	0.02	0.01	0.01
query8	0.04	0.03	0.03
query9	0.56	0.50	0.51
query10	0.55	0.56	0.56
query11	0.15	0.11	0.10
query12	0.14	0.11	0.13
query13	0.62	0.59	0.60
query14	3.06	2.95	3.06
query15	0.90	0.85	0.83
query16	0.39	0.38	0.39
query17	1.07	1.05	1.07
query18	0.24	0.22	0.21
query19	1.98	1.95	1.86
query20	0.01	0.01	0.01
query21	15.38	0.62	0.61
query22	2.35	1.94	1.46
query23	16.94	1.01	0.75
query24	3.25	0.70	1.81
query25	0.34	0.09	0.04
query26	0.43	0.15	0.14
query27	0.03	0.06	0.04
query28	10.20	1.10	1.07
query29	12.56	3.32	3.28
query30	0.25	0.06	0.06
query31	2.87	0.40	0.39
query32	3.23	0.46	0.46
query33	3.06	3.01	3.08
query34	17.19	4.51	4.44
query35	4.54	4.53	4.54
query36	0.68	0.47	0.51
query37	0.09	0.06	0.06
query38	0.04	0.03	0.04
query39	0.03	0.02	0.02
query40	0.16	0.12	0.12
query41	0.08	0.03	0.02
query42	0.03	0.03	0.02
query43	0.04	0.02	0.03
Total cold run time: 107.11 s
Total hot run time: 32.37 s

[Mryange]

run p0

[yiguolei]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 41228 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit c4183905300367bccd0113145e1c5ced73ed45b2, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17596	7668	7340	7340
q2	2078	192	178	178
q3	10619	1089	1160	1089
q4	10547	697	779	697
q5	7755	2882	2838	2838
q6	243	149	144	144
q7	992	624	615	615
q8	9371	1991	2024	1991
q9	6641	6463	6476	6463
q10	6981	2263	2372	2263
q11	477	269	271	269
q12	409	211	208	208
q13	17768	2996	3037	2996
q14	240	221	233	221
q15	574	523	539	523
q16	678	582	589	582
q17	991	597	589	589
q18	7550	6781	6762	6762
q19	1395	1136	984	984
q20	485	205	203	203
q21	4132	3288	3412	3288
q22	1112	991	985	985
Total cold run time: 108634 ms
Total hot run time: 41228 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	7336	7332	7310	7310
q2	325	225	233	225
q3	3093	3011	2968	2968
q4	2186	1927	1796	1796
q5	5847	5807	5827	5807
q6	233	146	141	141
q7	2328	1858	1824	1824
q8	3433	3593	3470	3470
q9	9102	8976	8974	8974
q10	3613	3572	3593	3572
q11	610	502	506	502
q12	832	638	649	638
q13	9549	3234	3171	3171
q14	321	264	272	264
q15	587	527	538	527
q16	695	645	660	645
q17	1854	1616	1625	1616
q18	8446	7932	7597	7597
q19	1710	1708	1592	1592
q20	2101	1904	1874	1874
q21	5771	5576	5592	5576
q22	1108	1051	1035	1035
Total cold run time: 71080 ms
Total hot run time: 61124 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 198376 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit c4183905300367bccd0113145e1c5ced73ed45b2, data reload: false

query1	1312	921	899	899
query2	6267	2066	2030	2030
query3	10825	4278	4326	4278
query4	66556	29451	23485	23485
query5	4998	449	445	445
query6	405	171	172	171
query7	5599	306	310	306
query8	308	223	222	222
query9	8964	2723	2692	2692
query10	480	265	260	260
query11	17129	15317	15991	15317
query12	166	106	102	102
query13	1498	444	444	444
query14	10107	7730	7602	7602
query15	208	185	184	184
query16	7053	471	484	471
query17	1098	600	590	590
query18	1834	322	337	322
query19	210	156	166	156
query20	120	112	116	112
query21	210	102	101	101
query22	4888	4514	4477	4477
query23	34958	34281	34140	34140
query24	6114	2873	2920	2873
query25	539	416	433	416
query26	663	168	173	168
query27	1754	355	361	355
query28	4336	2480	2495	2480
query29	708	484	452	452
query30	245	174	172	172
query31	1002	862	835	835
query32	66	54	53	53
query33	472	282	291	282
query34	919	522	523	522
query35	864	740	725	725
query36	1098	959	985	959
query37	119	75	77	75
query38	4122	4040	4067	4040
query39	1503	1504	1443	1443
query40	203	103	102	102
query41	51	45	48	45
query42	115	105	104	104
query43	524	500	486	486
query44	1177	840	856	840
query45	184	169	167	167
query46	1193	736	716	716
query47	1987	1947	1910	1910
query48	490	382	386	382
query49	766	403	390	390
query50	857	424	431	424
query51	7301	7359	7276	7276
query52	101	88	89	88
query53	263	182	186	182
query54	571	451	442	442
query55	79	81	76	76
query56	263	248	255	248
query57	1217	1127	1102	1102
query58	219	231	224	224
query59	3124	2892	2893	2892
query60	275	261	246	246
query61	110	108	112	108
query62	783	675	697	675
query63	219	196	195	195
query64	1353	678	631	631
query65	3263	3214	3190	3190
query66	710	312	310	310
query67	15801	15607	15582	15582
query68	4192	571	572	571
query69	429	277	267	267
query70	1147	1081	1124	1081
query71	350	266	264	264
query72	6510	4036	3925	3925
query73	764	350	347	347
query74	10223	9011	9035	9011
query75	3364	2662	2648	2648
query76	1888	1116	1049	1049
query77	505	278	299	278
query78	10686	9703	9677	9677
query79	1908	598	598	598
query80	1137	419	424	419
query81	537	239	244	239
query82	408	121	115	115
query83	172	142	159	142
query84	274	78	75	75
query85	997	298	286	286
query86	402	301	293	293
query87	4380	4340	4328	4328
query88	3965	2393	2375	2375
query89	426	282	286	282
query90	1976	182	187	182
query91	175	146	166	146
query92	65	52	48	48
query93	2310	553	552	552
query94	833	300	291	291
query95	366	263	254	254
query96	623	283	281	281
query97	3363	3160	3204	3160
query98	218	204	209	204
query99	1596	1325	1299	1299
Total cold run time: 319105 ms
Total hot run time: 198376 ms

[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 32.32 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit c4183905300367bccd0113145e1c5ced73ed45b2, data reload: false

query1	0.03	0.02	0.03
query2	0.07	0.03	0.04
query3	0.23	0.07	0.06
query4	1.62	0.11	0.11
query5	0.52	0.51	0.51
query6	1.14	0.73	0.75
query7	0.02	0.01	0.01
query8	0.04	0.03	0.03
query9	0.55	0.50	0.49
query10	0.54	0.54	0.53
query11	0.15	0.10	0.10
query12	0.15	0.11	0.11
query13	0.60	0.60	0.60
query14	2.74	2.85	2.72
query15	0.89	0.83	0.83
query16	0.39	0.39	0.38
query17	1.06	1.05	1.08
query18	0.22	0.22	0.21
query19	1.96	1.88	2.10
query20	0.02	0.01	0.01
query21	15.36	0.61	0.60
query22	2.24	1.79	1.93
query23	17.35	0.86	0.85
query24	2.93	0.45	1.27
query25	0.20	0.16	0.04
query26	0.52	0.14	0.13
query27	0.04	0.04	0.05
query28	11.11	1.09	1.07
query29	12.58	3.27	3.29
query30	0.24	0.06	0.06
query31	2.86	0.39	0.39
query32	3.24	0.46	0.45
query33	2.99	2.98	3.08
query34	17.05	4.48	4.50
query35	4.49	4.55	4.56
query36	0.67	0.47	0.48
query37	0.09	0.06	0.06
query38	0.04	0.03	0.04
query39	0.04	0.02	0.02
query40	0.16	0.13	0.12
query41	0.08	0.03	0.02
query42	0.03	0.02	0.02
query43	0.04	0.02	0.03
Total cold run time: 107.29 s
Total hot run time: 32.32 s

[Mryange]

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