branch-3.0: [fix](mem leak) fe non_heap mem leak while use jdbc catalog #45806

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Cherry-picked from #45806

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run buildall

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 40895 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit 3da9accfc2246f12373c269949b9c5ab57c9b5b7, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	18062	7514	7391	7391
q2	2629	170	167	167
q3	12510	1131	1174	1131
q4	10665	782	753	753
q5	8018	2933	2791	2791
q6	247	149	144	144
q7	980	629	612	612
q8	9682	1908	1977	1908
q9	6638	6373	6404	6373
q10	6980	2275	2301	2275
q11	462	266	256	256
q12	393	214	210	210
q13	17761	2989	3019	2989
q14	238	209	206	206
q15	566	518	506	506
q16	676	620	619	619
q17	960	636	520	520
q18	7220	6667	6702	6667
q19	1415	1058	1040	1040
q20	470	207	201	201
q21	3962	3259	3144	3144
q22	1098	995	992	992
Total cold run time: 111632 ms
Total hot run time: 40895 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	7361	7201	7233	7201
q2	326	234	244	234
q3	3196	3045	2919	2919
q4	2101	1820	1806	1806
q5	5655	5681	5651	5651
q6	217	137	136	136
q7	2256	1784	1782	1782
q8	3306	3493	3458	3458
q9	8797	8844	8791	8791
q10	3585	3582	3538	3538
q11	598	512	482	482
q12	809	587	575	575
q13	6053	3185	3026	3026
q14	283	254	259	254
q15	563	503	522	503
q16	694	659	655	655
q17	1797	1585	1549	1549
q18	7823	7486	7307	7307
q19	1652	1596	1605	1596
q20	2078	1783	1783	1783
q21	5337	5193	5129	5129
q22	1114	1019	999	999
Total cold run time: 65601 ms
Total hot run time: 59374 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 192300 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit 3da9accfc2246f12373c269949b9c5ab57c9b5b7, data reload: false

query1	964	372	364	364
query2	6513	2038	2010	2010
query3	6696	216	213	213
query4	34107	23514	23430	23430
query5	4307	469	464	464
query6	281	176	194	176
query7	4626	312	311	311
query8	293	230	223	223
query9	9754	2682	2658	2658
query10	483	258	257	257
query11	18047	15209	15249	15209
query12	151	109	102	102
query13	1646	452	431	431
query14	9734	7401	7308	7308
query15	298	177	195	177
query16	8213	459	465	459
query17	1768	572	550	550
query18	2142	304	303	303
query19	363	149	143	143
query20	113	109	104	104
query21	66	47	44	44
query22	4627	4296	4131	4131
query23	34784	34092	34694	34092
query24	11463	2849	2818	2818
query25	548	384	385	384
query26	1080	172	166	166
query27	2764	302	297	297
query28	8095	2446	2460	2446
query29	638	427	414	414
query30	321	165	156	156
query31	1006	773	790	773
query32	100	58	55	55
query33	774	279	280	279
query34	988	485	504	485
query35	925	735	712	712
query36	1113	928	993	928
query37	121	73	77	73
query38	3933	3889	3873	3873
query39	1483	1435	1428	1428
query40	223	83	85	83
query41	55	49	49	49
query42	112	105	104	104
query43	521	479	486	479
query44	1285	805	811	805
query45	179	168	167	167
query46	1156	710	711	710
query47	1955	1831	1860	1831
query48	478	391	370	370
query49	1221	388	377	377
query50	814	405	403	403
query51	7336	7182	7252	7182
query52	102	90	87	87
query53	259	186	186	186
query54	1195	468	465	465
query55	83	77	75	75
query56	261	260	254	254
query57	1237	1104	1117	1104
query58	239	229	221	221
query59	3109	3069	2982	2982
query60	290	269	267	267
query61	132	129	130	129
query62	886	675	680	675
query63	217	186	184	184
query64	5313	742	732	732
query65	3278	3192	3190	3190
query66	1346	328	335	328
query67	15957	15598	15693	15598
query68	4050	608	580	580
query69	438	269	275	269
query70	1209	1142	1120	1120
query71	343	253	262	253
query72	6169	4131	3996	3996
query73	755	341	340	340
query74	10322	8962	9018	8962
query75	3355	2616	2612	2612
query76	2691	1155	994	994
query77	435	285	282	282
query78	10453	9624	9741	9624
query79	1708	606	608	606
query80	866	449	437	437
query81	1037	244	244	244
query82	854	116	118	116
query83	267	143	145	143
query84	241	85	73	73
query85	1666	299	281	281
query86	475	302	290	290
query87	4463	4390	4390	4390
query88	4256	2381	2368	2368
query89	408	291	299	291
query90	2380	193	198	193
query91	215	162	169	162
query92	160	58	66	58
query93	2714	574	562	562
query94	1116	299	310	299
query95	357	257	257	257
query96	625	282	277	277
query97	3316	3204	3211	3204
query98	221	208	192	192
query99	1580	1367	1342	1342
Total cold run time: 303712 ms
Total hot run time: 192300 ms

[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 33.99 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit 3da9accfc2246f12373c269949b9c5ab57c9b5b7, data reload: false

query1	0.04	0.03	0.03
query2	0.07	0.03	0.03
query3	0.23	0.07	0.06
query4	1.63	0.10	0.10
query5	0.53	0.49	0.52
query6	1.12	0.72	0.73
query7	0.02	0.02	0.02
query8	0.04	0.03	0.03
query9	0.56	0.49	0.51
query10	0.54	0.54	0.57
query11	0.14	0.11	0.10
query12	0.14	0.11	0.12
query13	0.62	0.60	0.60
query14	3.08	3.01	2.92
query15	0.92	0.83	0.82
query16	0.38	0.37	0.38
query17	1.04	1.01	1.00
query18	0.25	0.23	0.23
query19	1.98	1.84	1.82
query20	0.01	0.01	0.01
query21	15.35	0.56	0.59
query22	2.51	2.49	1.84
query23	17.14	0.99	0.85
query24	3.25	2.19	2.09
query25	0.27	0.08	0.29
query26	0.61	0.15	0.14
query27	0.04	0.04	0.04
query28	8.75	1.10	1.06
query29	12.54	3.28	3.28
query30	0.24	0.05	0.07
query31	2.87	0.38	0.38
query32	3.28	0.47	0.46
query33	2.99	2.99	3.02
query34	17.04	4.42	4.44
query35	4.44	4.48	4.50
query36	0.68	0.48	0.50
query37	0.08	0.06	0.07
query38	0.05	0.04	0.03
query39	0.03	0.02	0.02
query40	0.16	0.13	0.12
query41	0.07	0.02	0.03
query42	0.03	0.02	0.02
query43	0.03	0.03	0.03
Total cold run time: 105.79 s
Total hot run time: 33.99 s