Do R vendoring using R_BIN instead of R CMD INSTALL

dev/release/verify-release-candidate.sh

@@ -277,11 +277,12 @@ test_r() {
 
   show_info "Build the R package source tarball"
 
-  # Running R CMD INSTALL on the R source directory is the most reliable cross-platform
-  # method to ensure the proper version of nanoarrow is vendored into the R package.
-  # Do this in a temporary library so not to overwrite the a user's existing package.
+  # Run bootstrap.R from within the r subdirectory
+  pushd r
+  "$R_BIN" -e 'source("bootstrap.R", echo = TRUE)'
+  popd
+
   mkdir "$NANOARROW_TMPDIR/tmplib"
-  "$R_BIN" CMD INSTALL r --preclean --library="$NANOARROW_TMPDIR/tmplib"
 
   # Builds the R source tarball
   pushd $NANOARROW_TMPDIR

r/.Rbuildignore

@@ -12,3 +12,5 @@
 ^bootstrap\.R$
 ^\.cache$
 ^compile_commands\.json$
+^configure\.win$
+^configure$