enhance: [2.4] Add skip load validation for create collection task

[congqixia]

Cherry-pick from master
pr: #35737
Related to #35415

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[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 78.94737% with 4 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 71.93%. Comparing base (c75f556) to head (de8399b).
Report is 3 commits behind head on 2.4.

Files	Patch %	Lines
internal/proxy/util.go	76.47%	2 Missing and 2 partials ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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##              2.4   #35761      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   81.15%   71.93%   -9.22%     
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  Files        1056     1056              
  Lines      139227   139246      +19     
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- Hits       112992   100173   -12819     
- Misses      21940    34774   +12834     
- Partials     4295     4299       +4     

Files	Coverage Δ
internal/proxy/task.go	90.22% <100.00%> (+0.01%)	⬆️
internal/proxy/util.go	91.76% <76.47%> (-0.06%)	⬇️

... and 225 files with indirect coverage changes

[weiliu1031]

/lgtm