Support running datafusion tests with cargo nextest

[alamb]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge?

I want to use cargo nextest: https://nexte.st/ as it is faster

However, when I run it

cargo nextest run

I get an error

    Finished `test` profile [unoptimized + debuginfo] target(s) in 1m 20s
error: creating test list failed

Caused by:
  for `datafusion-sqllogictest::sqllogictests`, command `/Users/andrewlamb/Software/datafusion/target/debug/deps/sqllogictests-41a268ed3f68155c --list --format terse` exited with code 2
--- stdout:

--- stderr:
error: unexpected argument '--list' found

  tip: to pass '--list' as a value, use '-- --list'

Usage: sqllogictests-41a268ed3f68155c [OPTIONS] [FILTERS]...

For more information, try '--help'.

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This is because the sqllogictest runner is custom and doesn't accept the --list --format terse flag

Describe the solution you'd like

I would like cargo nextest run to run all tests (except for sqllogictests)

Describe alternatives you've considered

No response

Additional context

No response